Gossip is one of the many things that can lower workplace productivity. It can also create an environment of mistrust and can damage working relationships. Even if we don’t start the gossip, listening to it, passing it on, or standing idly by while it’s happening, makes us part of the gossip and helps perpetuate it. When […]
Last week I wrote a post with advice on how to offer a sincere apology. Since then, I’ve had several readers contact me complaining, not about the steps I offered, but because they didn’t understand WHY they should have to apologize in the first place. “Great advice, but why should I apologize if I didn’t […]
Many people have heard that empathy is putting yourself in someone else’s shoes. This is a simple way of saying that we should try to see things from the other person’s perspective and try to understand how they feel—simple to say, but not as simple to do. Many of us try to be empathetic, but […]
In my September 3rd post, I discussed how to Improve Your Listening in Six Easy Steps. However, sometimes the first step to improving your listening skills is to eliminate any bad habits you’ve developed. Here are some of the most common poor listening habits. I’ve been guilty of several. What about you? 1. Interrupting […]
Let’s face it, most people love to talk more than they like to listen. The squeaky wheel gets the grease after all, right? In fact, everything we learn from the time we’re young reinforces the value of talk over listening. We wait for baby’s first word, bribing and cajoling them to say something … anything […]
Several times over the last few months I’ve been asked by those new in business whether they should bother to get business cards. “Can’t I just tell people my web address? All my info is there,” asked one person. Another insisted she wasn’t getting business cards because they were old fashioned. So what’s the answer? […]
Let’s face it. There are some conversations that nobody really wants to have– from confronting an employee at work to talking to a parent about his or her unsafe driving, and everything in between. Although many of us try to avoid these difficult conversations, doing so can have a negative impact on ourselves, the other person, our teams, […]
Many people can relate to the frustration of receiving a voicemail message that is unclear, incomplete, or so long-winded that even the sender wouldn’t want to hear it again. That’s probably the reason so many of us only listen long enough to find out who called and then delete the message and call the other […]
I was presenting a customer service program last week when a participant asked how to handle customers who continued to talk on their cell phones while she tried to help them. “Isn’t that rude?” she asked. She was obviously a nicer person than I am, since she had to ask. Of course it’s rude, disrespectful, […]
Your heart is pounding. Your thoughts are racing. You’re in a total panic. Why? You have Electronic Communication Regret, commonly known as ECR – a condition occurring in thousands of people every day who hit SEND without really thinking things through. Although the condition isn’t fatal, it can have debilitating, long-lasting, life-altering side effects, including, […]
